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It’s easy to live under the illusion that more is better. This “quantity over quality” approach can creep into our social lives, our material possessions, and our time commitments. But amassing people and things is a way of avoiding the simple silence that remains if we start to shed the extra baggage.  It’s a way of placing “having” and “doing” above “being.”

A beautiful way to begin to step out of this mindset and to bring more space into our lives is to simplify. When we begin with small things, like decluttering our work space, donating clothes we haven’t worn in two years (but that we keep telling ourselves we may need some day), or unplugging from the addictive habit of hoarding information from the internet, we start to liberate ourselves. Each small act of simplifying our lives allows us to gain enough momentum to ultimately be able to discern and discard the habits, relationships, and activities that don’t serve us. And when we can say goodbye to the extra baggage we used to think we couldn’t do without, we start opening up spaces in our lives for things that do nourish and delight us to enter.

To embrace simplicity and the peaceful sense of freedom that comes with “cleaning out” our lives, focus on the following areas:

1. Possessions. Donate or sell what you don’t absolutely need. The optimal way to shed the stuff that takes up space but offers little value is to first make a list of all the things you absolutely need and begin to get rid of everything else. If you approach decluttering the other way around by picking up each object and considering its possible future uses, you will convince yourself you may eventually need it, whatever the improbable reasons. So make a list first and stick to it. You may find that having more physical space open up around your home will bring a subtle sense of space to your mind. Reducing the external stimuli can help quiet our thoughts and bring us more calm.
2. Activities. Consider everything you commit your time to on a weekly basis. With each item, ask yourself two questions: “Do I enjoy doing it?” and “Is it absolutely necessary?” If that time commitment doesn’t pass both of these with a “yes,” it’s time to reconsider. If changing your schedule to one that serves and fulfills you means you’ll end up with more free time on your hands for now, then see if you can embrace the empty spaces in your schedule rather than scrambling to fill them. Ultimately, simplicity entails spending time on things that are important and allowing some gaps in your day to just be. Today, it’s become easier and more tempting than ever to constantly fill each of these gaps with technology or social media, to the point where checking Facebook or your email becomes an unconscious reaction to a deeply-rooted need to seek fulfillment outside of yourself. But when you start to fill these moments of free time or boredom with either a nourishing activity or nothing at all, your initial aversion to space can subside and give way to a sense of inner peace.
3. Relationships. Does your social life deeply fulfill you or does it simply keep you from being alone or bored? Do your friends support your highest good? A challenging but highly rewarding practice is to start being selective about who you spend your time with and who you give yourself to. If there are relationships, whether with friends or family or your partner, in your life that drag you down or aren’t compatible with your deepest ideals, then acknowledge this. Attachment and fear of loneliness can compel us to keep tolerating friendships and relationships that are so-so or even downright unfulfilling or hurtful. Letting go of your connection to these relationships can be one of the hardest but most powerful decisions you can ever make. It’s a crucial practice in self-love. And when you begin to release old connections whose time has come with a clear vision of the kinds of people you do seek to spend time with or to love, you will begin to see changes in the kinds of relationships you begin to attract.

Another way of expressing “simplicity” is selectivity. It’s not necessarily giving up what you want; it’s letting go of what you’ve been holding on to out of fear and attachment. Initially, it can be challenging to muster up the courage to let go, but once you do, you’ll be empowered to exercise this courage with more and more ease until you find that you no longer accumulate things and people that fill up the gaps in your life without providing much value. Instead, you’ll be surrounded with only what caters to your deepest desires.

This weekend marks a special holiday for us at Yoga International. Guru Purnima. No idea what that means? Here’s a hint: Step into a yoga class and pay attention to your yoga instructor. Has she ever offered helpful assists to you on or off the mat? Given advice so heartfelt it was like he knew you as an old friend? Guru Purnima allows you to remember those moments. At YI, we’ll be gathering with new (and old) friends alike to honor our teachers.

Back in 1987, Swami Rama said that on Guru Purnima, he remembered the way he was looked after by his own teacher. “He was so loving. When I see darkness everywhere, in all relationships in the world, from one corner gleams light. I call it the light of the guru.”

He told his students that Guru Purnima is a day to remember and honor that light—the tireless guidance, compassion, and encouragement we’ve received from our own teachers. And, of course, teachers come in so many guises, from the English professor who believed in us, to the yoga teachers who paid extra attention, to our mothers, dads, friends and mentors we’ve collected along the way.

But he also noted something else about this cross-spiritual, international festival: it’s a time to re-kindle our personal commitment to yoga practice. Why? Guru Purnima isn’t just about external teachers: it’s also about recognizing the guru within.

Buddha might have put it best: light thine own lamp. Be your own beacon—your own lighthouse in the perfect storm. Because even when you don’t feel strong, or your teacher feels far away, as Rolf Sovik points out, your practice can reconnect you with the light of the guru that continually inspires and keeps you going.

Nobel laureate Rabindranath Tagore illuminated it this way:

“Within us we have a hope which always walks in front of our present narrow experience; it is the undying faith in the infinite in us; it will never accept any of our disabilities as a permanent fact; it sets no limit to its own scope; it dares to assert that man has oneness with God; and its wild dreams become true every day.”

I hope that the words of each of these teachers will give you as much inspiration as they’ve given me. Want to celebrate Guru Purnima at home? Make kheer. Attend a community kirtan, or honor the holiday in your own way.

We’d love to hear who has inspired you and what makes that person so special in your life.

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Six months ago, I passed my first-ever driving exam. At age 23. It was a somewhat-embarrassing journey from white-knuckling the steering wheel to pulling a fancy maneuver on an uneven, pockmarked road because I thought I saw a very large, dead deer ahead. It was instead a very large, dead tree branch. My friend Kelham who was with me laughed himself all the way back home.

I drive comfortably now—off the interstate. But I’m easily vexed. A shared experience apparently: one shared, at least, by BBC personality Anita Rani in her co-hosted documentary, India on Four Wheels. In the second episode, the road-trip travelogue captures Rani as she encounters a motorbike barreling towards her car, traveling the wrong way—on not just on an old rural road, but in the fast lane of the six-lane, high-speed Mumbai Pune Expressway.

It all feels so universal. Even if cars pretty much stay in their own lane around here, (and peacock attacks on cars are pretty much unheard of) who hasn’t had an experience driving that made them angry, anxious or upset?

More to the point: how do we keep our cool during the season in which we spend hours (and sometimes days) on the road, traveling to yoga festivals, family reunions, and best-friend weddings? I must admit, these tips helped me relax a bit and enjoy the ride.

Health and Driving
According to ayurveda, If there’s one season during which we need to watch our tendency toward aggression, it’s summer. Our level of pitta-dosha hot-headedness can easily skyrocket.

How can you tell? Shouting at traffic might be your first clue. Excess pitta, however, can also cause oily skin, acne, excess sweating, and excess stomach acid—or put in another way—heartburn and ulcers.

Keep your cool by staying hydrated (at least 4 to 6 cups of water daily) and, if you’re particularly feeling the heat, eat plenty of cooling foods (like coconut) that support a pitta-reducing diet and lifestyle.

Practicing mindfulness before and during a drive will also profoundly effect how you navigate that special intersection between hot weather, body aches and pain, and unpredictable traffic.  It can be as simple as doing a few rounds of deep breathing every time you stop at a stop light.

The One-Minute Method: Pause for a few moments before turning the key in the ignition, says Jill Satterfield, founder of Vajra Yoga in New York City. This can provide the opportunity you need to let go of emotions before you get on the road: otherwise, “whatever you’re feeling will be there for the remainder of the trip,” she says, and may affect your ability to enjoy the moment.

The Road Trip Survival Method: As you drive, says Insight Meditation instructor Michele McDonald, pay attention to all five senses. Listen to the ambient sound of your car or feel the heat of the sun through your windows. Observations like these can keep you focused on the present moment.

You never know. You might have loads of fun here. Pack a picnic, grab your favorite sunblock, and head out on the open road!

Need more advice on how to drive mindfully? Read additional tips from Satterfield and McDonald here.

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I used to be the ultimate city girl: I didn’t like to hike or camp; I would shriek and run at the sight of a worm (okay, maybe this one is still true); and I never had what you would call a fulfilling relationship with Mother Nature.

But gradually, my yoga practice changed all that. Yoga made me much more aware of the deepest needs of my body. These needs had always been there, of course, but learning to listen to my body on the mat—while cultivating my ability to discern and address my spiritual needs off the mat—helped me start to finally recognize them. One need in particular called out rather insistently: my body’s longing for nature, for a place of refuge from the chaos outside so I could access the clarity inside. Something in me, for the first time, craved the outdoors.

And so I responded.  Slowly I began to awaken to the powerful spiritual practice of appreciating nature’s beauty. Noticing a flower was no longer simply nice; it became a doorway into stillness. Breathing in rich and pure mountain air wasn’t just enjoyable; it actually strengthened me physically and emotionally. I could sink my bare toes into the earth and feel energized. Little things I had taken for granted—or neglected to notice at all—became my personal expression of a yogic journey.

For some people connecting with the natural world is, well, second nature. For others, like me, it takes cultivation, patience, and gratitude. The benefits, however, are worth the effort. But when the demands of daily living restrict your access to this ever-present source of renewal, you don’t have to travel far or sacrifice much time to allow nature to bring a little more light into your day. Here are some suggestions:

Recognize connection. You aren’t separate from nature; you’re part of it. That’s why it can make you feel so sublimely at home.

Practice gratitude. Each songbird’s chirp, majestic tree, or funny-shaped cloud provides an opportunity to stop, stay still, listen deeply and watch intently. By giving thanks for these small daily gifts, you open yourself up to more of what nature has to offer.

Make time. On a regular basis connect with what’s natural. Take a mindful stroll around your favorite park, sink your bare feet into fresh soil, or spend the afternoon swimming in a pond or lake.

Acknowledge the healing. That rejuvenation you feel after a weekend trip to a national park? That’s your body rejoicing. Does gardening in your backyard leaves you a little more refreshed and grounded? Then perhaps tending the soil is, on some level, your body’s way of healing itself. Its intelligence always knows what serves your being best, and those impulses you get—to go hiking, surfing, gardening, or bird watching—are manifestations of that inherent wisdom.

Our yoga practice strives “to yoke” and unify, and learning to feel our inherent oneness with nature is an accessible and immensely pleasurable place to start.

Did you know? Breaking up your busy work week with short bursts of creative activities—like learning to make pottery or just singing your favorite song—will benefit your health in ways that are strikingly similar to yoga. Summing up the recent research findings, a columnist for CNN put it this way:  “Creating helps make people happier, less anxious, more resilient, and better equipped to problem-solve in the face of hardship.”

That sounds pretty common sensical to me. Have you ever noticed that when you’re in touch with your creativity— no matter how you choose to express it—problems don’t seem quite so difficult, work seems like a breeze, and you can pretty much apply yourself wholeheartedly to anything? But if you’re exhausted, uninspired? Not so much.

Luckily, you can also give yourself the creative boost you need by stepping onto your yoga mat or meditation cushion. How? Specifically, by tapping into what’s known as kundalini shakti.

Creativity and Yoga
According to the Himalayan Institute’s own Swami Rama, using your yoga practice to awaken kundalini will naturally promote creativity and give you that cool sense of working in the groove—what Sandra Anderson refers to as the “creative, blissful consciousness of enlightenment.”

Hari Kirin Kaur Kalsa would agree. The painter and yoga teacher starts her day with a meditation taught by Kundalini master Yogi Bhajan, which she says will sharpen your concentration, help you access your intuition, and most relevantly—enhance your creativity.

Practice a yoga sequence, taught by Sandra Anderson, which focuses on udana vayu, or the upward moving breath. This breath is chiefly associated with kundalini shakti, and according to Anderson, “when udana is balanced and strong, we stand tall and joyous, enthusiastic, alert, articulate, and strong-willed.”

Who doesn’t want to be joyous and strong-willed? I do. And as someone who is not quite 5’2” a little taller wouldn’t hurt either.

For additional insight, take a look at how well known artists, musicians, and writers use yoga to fuel their own creativity in our feature, “Awakening the Artist.”

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Do you ever go for a nice morning run to clear your mind, enjoy a cold swim, or voluntarily sweat bullets on a long bike ride in the heat of the summer? If your yoga teacher knew, she’d probably tell you that these kinds of sports won’t help your asana practice.

I beg to differ. Take Ultimate Frisbee, for example. Anyone who plays it knows that it promotes ekagraha (one-pointedness) right? So how exactly do you reconcile your two passions—sports and asana practice?

For starters, read Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche’s Running with the Mind of Meditation. The Sakyong, the lineage holder of Shambhala Buddhism, doesn’t claim that you can or should meditate while running. And he doesn’t even offer you a step-by-step guide to making it to race day.

But what he does do, to the delight of Buddhist meditators and yoga teachers everywhere, is help you recognize how close your goals as a runner are to your intentions as a meditator or spiritual seeker. One big similarity? The attitude (and respect) you bring to both.

Another observation will be awfully familiar to anyone who’s studied bhakti yoga:

“Running is not simply slogging through the miles, trying to sweat out last night’s good times, or burning off excess weight,” he says. It can also be, like any activity practiced with one-pointed focus and an open heart, “a way to celebrate life.”

So how do you manage to keep running and have an established asana practice?

Consider shifting your priorities for asana, says Portland-based yoga teacher Tiffany Cruikshank. She sees it in the personal practice of many seasoned yoga practitioners who are now runners: “their goal isn’t really to be Gumby anymore,” she says, with a laugh.

What does that mean, exactly? “Sometimes it means if my legs are burning I’ll fall out of a posture early,” says marathon runner and yoga teacher Marni Renison. “And that’s a big thing—can you hold this posture? Can you hold this inversion?”

But intensity is no longer why she practices asana. “It’s not my space of competition,” she says, “It’s my space of recovery.”

Bringing Yoga to your Running

Yoga practitioners have a leg up, so to speak, on other runners because they’ve learned to pay deep attention to their bodies. To get the most out of running, take these tips from yoga teacher and ultra marathon runner Josh Schrei.

Try to stay keenly aware of your physical alignment. “You can have really good posture in your yoga practice” he says, “then start running, and it’s a whole new thing—those good habits we have go out the window.”

Instead of leaning forward as you run, he notes, keep the spine long, the naval slightly drawn in, and the heart lifted—just like you would in Tadasana (mountain pose). The benefit? As in yoga, this can prevent injury, and also make every run become “tremendous core exercise.”

Focus on your breath and pay attention to physical cues so that when your body tells you to slow down or take a break you can hear that.

You can also use running as a way to practice the yogic concept of self-surrender, says Schrei. Start by letting go of expectations about how fast or how far you should run. Over time, that open and trusting attitude can actually open the doors to longer and more intense runs than you ever previously imagined.

Bonus: Consider incorporating the bandhas. “You can work with uddiyana bandha directly while running” Schrei says. In addition to its energetic effect on the vayus, practicing uddiyana bandha will benefit your run by stabilizing the neutral alignment of the lumbar spine—preventing it from overarching or collapsing.

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An old adage says that if you eat fruits and vegetables for 80 years, you won’t die young. I’m pretty sure the same thing could be applied to fostering a life-long yoga practice—even if the only thing you do consistently is keep a journal about it.

Or at least, that’s what Bruce Black recommends in Writing Yoga, a how-to guide and memoir he penned to teach how journaling can deepen your awareness of yoga.

How can daily journaling do that? Through the yogic concept of svadhyaya or self-study. As Black puts it, “Your journal, like your mat, is your refuge, a place where you can let your guard down, discover who you really are, and celebrate that discovery. It helps you answer the question: Who am I?”

Or as yoga teacher and lifelong personal-journal aficionado Mia Park notes, it can simply help you understand how your meditation or asana habits have changed.

Journaling 101

Start simple. Make a habit of keeping a pencil or pen and paper nearby so you can jot down notes or observations as soon as you’ve finished practicing.

Write down anything. “It could be my left hip really hurts,” says Park, or “I didn’t realize I wasn’t supposed to touch my mala beads with my index finger.” She doesn’t limit herself in scope here: “I lost track of space and time and thought I was a cow on the moon” isn’t off limits either.

Don’t over-think things. So you’re having a hard time getting into it. It’s hard enough, with your crazy schedule, to practice every single day, and now you’re supposed to write about it? Do it anyway. Think of journaling as a form of tapas or discipline. Park suggests that you write about everyday experiences, or extraordinary ones, if they surface, or anything in between; you don’t need to have earth-shattering insights.

Be open to sharing. Still not convinced? Keep in mind that a daily journal can also open your heart. To yourself, and others.

Give it a try. Write down one single thing as vividly as you can. According to Black, it doesn’t get any more basic than this: “A journal is another prop—like a block, a belt, a blanket—for you to use in your yoga practice.”

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Do you ever skip an opportunity to practice asana because you don’t think you have time, energy, or even enough space? According to senior Para Yoga teacher Karina Ayn Mirsky even just a few minutes matters: for physiology, vitality, and even our everyday habits.

Read on for tips from our interview with Mirsky on how to put together a sequence that’s only 10 minutes long, prepare for a short meditation, or even practice asana in the shower.

Why practice for only 10 minutes?
Because it will help you create good practice habits. I’m reminded of a story that Rolf Sovik shares about how he established a meditation practice. He would get up in the morning and go and touch his meditation cushion and then walk away. He did this for several days.

And then he would go to the cushion and sit on it for a moment. And periodically he would go to his meditation seat and sit on it for a few minutes longer, and before he knew it, he was established in the practice of taking his seat on the meditation cushion.

Even if we can only carve out a few minutes a day, if we make the commitment to practice, even for just a few minutes, we establish ourselves in the habit and that’s what’s really important.

Is there a better or worse time of the day to slip in a few minutes of practice?
It’s funny. My teacher, Rod Stryker says that the best time to do meditation practice is first thing in the morning, according to the ayurvedic clock. And the second best time is any other time. I think it’s true for this as well.

Give yourself 10 minutes, first thing in the morning. It helps work out the stiffness and soreness that may have accumulated over night; and your mind get clear and focused for your day.  Otherwise what happens is you wake up, rush off to work, jump on the email right away and before you know it, your attention gets pulled in a million directions and you’ve missed your opportunity.

What should you focus on if you only have 10 minutes?
I love arm swings—the breath of joy—to get the respiration going. Use strong exhales, and a little bit of kapalabhati with those arms swings. This helps move lymphatic fluid, increase circulation, and loosens up the shoulders and the upper back.

I also like dynamic chair pose. Moving in an out of Utkatasana wakes up the upper back, increases energy, and stimulates the nervous system.

If I only have a few minutes I might move slowly through the sun salutation sequence. But any vinyasa flow will do. You could even move in and out of uttanasana a few times.

If I’m really limited, if I don’t even have ten minutes—there are certain things I’ll do in the shower. Agni sara is one. It’s part of my shower routine now. And there’s even a couple of shoulder stretches, warrior poses, with one hand against the wall in the shower so the hot water can run down the chest and work out any aches and pains or stiffness from the night’s sleep.

How long should someone focus on any portion of the practice?
It’s my understanding that if you’re holding a posture, that it takes about 60 seconds to affect the musculature system. It takes closer to 2 minutes to start making an impact on the nervous system. And more than 2 minutes to make an impact on the endocrine system.

When I do arm swings or breath of joy, because I really do want to get my lymph going, I’ll tend to do that for a few minutes. 2 minutes is the minimum.

But for chair pose, which requires so much muscular energy from the thighs, that I might do 6 to 9 rounds of extending the arms outward and then bringing the palms inward to the heart, moving in and out of the pose.

Listen to your body. We don’t always need to look to the science or look to our teachers.   We can look to our inner teacher.

Do you have any recommendations for preparing for meditation?
Sometimes what we need to do is strengthen the core and the back body. The muscles of the abdomen and the lower back support the sitting posture and the spine, so it’s important to warm up and strengthen those to prevent back and shoulder pain.

Some poses to consider: Pilates exercises for the core. Dynamic locust, shalambasana, and dynamic cobra. These postures are wonderful for creating the stabilization we need for longer sits.

And foot and ankle circles—something most people wouldn’t think of as a warm-up for meditation. To gain the most benefit, circle each foot slowly and deliberately. Flex and extend the toes, extend the arch of the foot, and circle the ankle. You may even feel this simple movement all through the front of the shin, the back of the calf, and down into the hip joints. Foot and ankle circles prevent the feet from falling asleep and also from cramping. This technique increases circulation in the lower leg, supports the knee and the ligament along the outer edge of the leg.

Photo by Andrea Killam

At around 7 am, in an apartment in Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn, just a few hours before I have to catch a flight from La Guardia to Chicago, I decide to meditate on the edge of a friend’s mattress with my back to the wall. Fifteen minutes later I put my mala beads down and check the time on my phone.

Whenever I travel, I make plans to be productive, to be mindful, to devour books like I did at 21 as a first-time solo traveler in Europe. But what ends up happening is this: an interrupted or somehow abridged meditation practice, lack of attention, anxiety, and at least a little gas.

I can do more nadi shodhanam. I can plot a course—non-stop—to relaxation town. Except on days like today when my mind won’t turn off. Later in the day at La Guardia, I’m too occupied replaying the hits (and probable misses) of my last night in New York to consider doing additional practice.

How do other yoga practitioners and teachers travel the world with their feet still squarely planted on the ground (while flying coach, catching public transportation, and avoiding the likes of airport bars and private town cars alike)?

As it happens you don’t need to buy an inflatable neck rest or seek out public yoga practice on the floor of airports—though, if you’re flying out of San Francisco’s SFO airport, they’ve got a room for that. Keep reading for mindful travel tips to use on any trip, in any part of the world.

1. Stay Hydrated

Because of the lack of humidity on most planes, it’s easy to get dehydrated from a short or long-haul flight. Yoga teacher Kathryn Budig buys a massive water bottle. Just don’t buy one until you clear airport security.

Optional: Mix the water with an effervescent wellness packet or tablet (such as Emergen-C or Airborne) and finish the bottle before you get off the plane.

2. Practice Therapeutic Asana

“It’s not my style to do yoga in airports,” says Jennifer Hoddevik of The Travel Yogi, but even if it’s not your cup of Earl Grey either, she recommends finding a way to practice double pigeon: it can be easily adapted to the confines of an airport gate, or the seats of planes, trains, and car seats alike. Try it at least once—your sore hips will thank you.

Other best bets? “I think legs-up-the-wall is imperative when traveling,” says Budig, who practices it just before bed, and who also gives a resounding commendation of double pigeon and other hip-openers. Among the chief benefits of practice, legs-up-the-wall is therapeutic for anxiety and insomnia, promoting the sleep you need after a long day of travel.

Hoddevik also practices twists, sun salutations, and heart-opening poses after reaching a destination. “It’s not so much grounding as a way to prepare yourself to be receptive to other people,” she says, “I get very tense when I travel so it’s a way to open myself and loosen up.”

3. Keep an Ayurveda First-Aid Kit

According to Ayurvedic Institute founder Vasant Lad, travel disrupts the vata dosha, making the usual suspects—dehydration, anxiety, general spaciness, and jet lag—easy to succumb to and more difficult to overcome. But the good news is that ayurveda offers loads of on-the-road remedies, from digestive herbs that can help prevent traveler’s diarrhea, to jet lag tea.

Get the 411 on these and other remedies here.

Other Holistic Tips:
Cover your throat with a scarf during air travel
Take epsom salt baths (for bloating)
Always carry arnica gel (for muscle aches)

4. Remember that Attitude is Everything

When life gives you delayed flights, mild nausea, or even awkward lunches with relatives you thought you once knew, reflect on the words of famed travel writer (and Dalai Llama bibliographer) Pico Iyer: “We travel to open our hearts and eyes and learn more about the world than our newspapers will accommodate.”

Or in other words, travel is transformative—regardless of the immediate feeling of a good or bad experience. “We’re all gonna hit the same hurdles,” says Hoddevik, “But trips in which you have a difficult experience or even a bad experience are maybe even more transformative than trips you look back on fondly.”

Try to approach a trip with the same openness and courage you’d use to approach a challenging pose or asana sequence. “You’re out of your bubble and have to learn about yourself,” says Hoddevik. “Travel forces you to understand more than the small nuclear world you’re comfortable with.”

5. Anxious? Breathe (Seriously)

“I’d get full anxiety the night before going somewhere,” says Budig, of early days as a traveling yoga teacher. “Now I throw my bag together and I’m ready for the journey.” Her advice? “Don’t focus on the potential for things going wrong or get ahead of yourself. That’s where the projection of fear, expectation, and anxiety come from.” Instead, “Be honest with yourself. One breath at a time, one step at a time.”

Remind yourself of your intention for travel, whether it’s to learn about a new culture or to share your message as a yoga teacher. “The only way to do that is to step out into the world,” says Budig, “You can’t stay in one place.”

“Travel” photo (cc) by Flickr user Tal Bright

Every day—or even a couple times a week—we stop what we’re doing, roll out our yoga mat or pull out our zafu from its hiding place, and sit down. As yoga practitioners we tune out the world around us and turn in to our inner world using one of the primary tenets of yoga—pratyahara or withdrawal of the senses.

But off our mat or cushion, how much time do we spend alone, just enjoying the solitude? Probably not much. Our advice: Make that part of your daily routine. Spend time in the garden reading something that inspires you, or write in your journal. “Do everything slowly,” says upstate New York-based teacher Amy Pearce-Hayden. “Even do dishes slowly,” she says, laughing.

According to Himalayan Institute’s senior yoga teacher Shari Friedrichsen, “A lot of people who study yoga think that there are good sides to themselves and bad.” But by holding space for ourselves outside of yoga-approved activities, she says, we can more readily notice, without judgment, all our everyday emotions and physical reactions—the skillful ones and not-so-skillful.

Spend some time alone and then return to your regularly scheduled yoga practice. See if it’s changed. “I notice that I’m not busy trying to unwind quite so much,” Shari says of her own personal practice. “Being alone gives you time to breathe. To know yourself a little bit better outside of just relaxation.”

If you’ve never felt comfortable hanging out by yourself, your yoga practice can actually help you transition to a more at-ease feeling. Take some tips from some of our favorite teachers:

Amy Pearce-Hayden:  A yin practice can help you feel more comfortable in your own skin. It also can show you how emotions change from moment to moment.  “I remain within a pose until I have an emotional change in posture,” Amy says. “Staying for 3 to 5 minutes gives me an opportunity to wait for my feelings to change.”

Shari Friedrichsen: Every time you do yoga, pay attention to your abdomen—specifically abdominal breathing, abdominal squeezes, and agni sara. This will help you develop the strength and courage you need to face negative thoughts and feelings.

Anamargret Sanchez: If you don’t already have a regular meditation practice, take “little bits” of time—10 minutes, then 15 minutes—to sit still until you feel like you can sit longer. “Whenever I feel uncomfortable, my mantra meditation practice becomes my beacon,” says Sanchez. Meditation won’t always be easy—nor will being alone with our thoughts or emotions sometimes—but “as Rod Stryker points out, one of the things we learn on the path of yoga is courage. Tantra is all about how to be able to feel comfortable in the midst of chaos.”

Oh, and don’t forget about this video,  by filmmaker Andrea Dorfman and poet/singer/songwriter Tanya Davis:

Photo (cc) by Flickr user Fe Ilya